Hafsa bint Umar (حفصہ بنت عمر) was born in 605 A.D., 5 years before the declaration of prophethood of
She was Hafsa bint Umar ibn Khattab ibn Nufayl ibn Abd Al-Uzza ibn Riyah ibn Abdullah ibn Qurt ibn Razah ibn Adiy ibn Kaab ibn Luay. 2 Her mother was Zaynab bint Mazo’on ibn Habib ibn Wahab ibn Hudhafah ibn Jamh, the sister of Uthman ibn Maz’oon . 3
She was raised in the noble house of Umar ibn Khattab who was known for his bravery. She was initially married to Khunays ibn Hudhafah ibn Qays ibn Saad Al-Sahmi , who was one of those Muslims who had migrated to Abyssinia, and then to Madinah. 4 He participated in the battle of Badr, became severely wounded and passed away due to them. 5 Hence, Hafsa was widowed at 18 years of age and suffered a great deal after his death.
Umar could not bear the signs of bereavement on her face which were affecting her youth. He thought of finding her a husband who could bring her happiness and joy. He asked Abu Bakr if he would like to marry his daughter, however, Abu Bakr gave no answer. Then, he went to Uthman and gave him the proposal of marrying his daughter. After a few days of consideration, Uthman also refused it. 6 Umar was extremely angry at this and went to the Holy
قد زوج اللّٰه عثمان خيرا من ابنتك و زوج خيرا من عثمان. 7
Indeed, Allah Almighty has arranged Uthman’s () wedding with a daughter better than yours and has arranged your daughter’s (Hafsa) wedding with a person better than Uthman ().
After hearing this, Umar realized that
…فلقيني أبو بكر، فقال: لقد وجدت علي حين عرضت علي حفصة فلم أرجع إليك شيئا؟ قال عمر: قلت: نعم، قال أبو بكر: فإنه لم يمنعني أن أرجع إليك فيما عرضت علي، إلا أني كنت علمت أن رسول اللّٰه صلى اللّٰه عليه وسلم قد ذكرها، فلم أكن لأفشي سر رسول اللّٰه صلى اللّٰه عليه وسلم، ولو تركها رسول اللّٰه صلى اللّٰه عليه وسلم قبلتها 8
I (Umar ) met Abu Bakr who said: Perhaps you became angry with me when you presented Hafsa to me and I did not give you a reply? I (Umar ) said: Yes. Abu Bakr said: Nothing stopped me to respond to your offer except that I knew that Allah’s Messenger had mentioned her (to me), and I never wanted to let out the secret of Allah’s Messenger . And if Allah’s Messenger had refused her, I would have accepted her.
So,
Hafsa used to spend most of her time praying
The original manuscript which was prepared by Abu Bakr had passed on to Hafsa after Umar’s death 12 and remained with her until Uthman asked her to send it to him so that he could make copies of it. She sent him the manuscript and he made several exact copies of it, which were then to the governors, who disseminated them among Muslim lands. 13 Hafsa did not only preserve the original copy of the
Hafsa spent the remainder of her life fasting and praying, until she passed away in the beginning of Muawiyah’s rule in 41 A.H. 14 She is buried in the Baqee cemetery (Jannat al-Baqee) with the other “Mothers of The Faithful”.